I found this article on the Vatican Information Service about Pope Benedict's comments at a Rome congress on "The Family and the Christian Community." I think that he has some positive affirmations to make about families, but I find it interesting that as I was trying to attend to the positives, he kept turning to the negatives. So, for example, he speaks about marriage but ends the section by cautioning about "pseudo-marriage" and divorce.

I wonder whether this gives us some insight into Benedict's character, or at least some insight into his attitude towards married life. He ends his comments by calling for more vocations to the priesthood and religious life. That's not exactly a rousing endorsement of marriage.

We should remember that Benedict's favourite theologian is Augustine of Hippo, who had very similar fears about marriage. It is good and natural in theory, but a risky venture that might imperil your salvation. One is better off avoiding it altogether.